The Negative Cycle of Unwarranted Work and Irresponsible Drinking and The Inspiration For Alcohol Treatment And Depression Therapy
19th April 2010 by Depressed No CommentsWork was starting to be too hectic for a young police officer named Gary. Even though he had only been on the police force for four years, he was already known as a hard worker who hardly ever said no to working overtime. As a matter of fact, he was now working twenty to twenty-five hours of overtime each week and, consequently, he felt like he was losing his handle on his personal life. What complicated the situation was the fact that Gary started going out drinking with a group of fellow officers after his shift.
What Began as Fun Soon Turned Into Abusive Drinking
What began as a good time very soon turned into excessive and abusive drinking and then into a negative cycle of feeling tired each morning when he awakened for work, working more long hours, and then going drinking with his buddies after work.
Noticeably Gary was in a rut and experiencing some negative alcohol effects on the body. Where Gary really observed alcohol related difficulties and alcohol short term effects, however, was in his family life and in his marriage. His wife wasn’t really a complainer, but she often encouraged him to stay at home more with the family rather than going through all of his money while drinking with his friends.
Gary’s Irresponsible and Careless Drinking Makes Him Feel More Depressed and Negatively Affects His Personality
In a similar way, Gary’s careless and excessive drinking also negatively affected his personality. More precisely, the more he drank, the less patience he had with any problems or issues that came up regarding his children or his wife and the more he felt a sense of depression.
It Was Clear to Gary That His Unhealthy and Irresponsible Drinking Was Adversely Affecting His Pocketbook, Health, Work, and His Relationship With His Family
In his heart of hearts, it was apparent to Gary that his hazardous and irresponsible drinking was adversely affecting his work, health, relationship with his family, and his pocketbook. So one Tuesday morning Gary made up his mind to talk to Jerry, a trusted old police officer friend that he greatly respected.
Gary told Jerry how irresponsible and careless drinking was adversely affecting his pocketbook, health, work, and his relationship with his family. Jerry told Gary that he totally understood because just around fifteen years ago, he too involved himself with hazardous and irresponsible drinking. In point of fact Jerry stated to Gary that irresponsible drinking can create so many problems in a person’s life that virtually everything of importance can be destroyed. And lastly, Jerry recommended that Gary make an appointment with an alcohol counselor at the work-affiliated substance abuse rehab facility.
Due to the fact that his employee’s assistance program was affiliated with this rehabilitation center, it was not only convenient but also quite affordable to seek guidance about his unhealthy drinking. And due to the fact that the staff at the alcohol abuse center was competent, non-judgmental, and supportive, Gary would be able to get alcohol rehab that made sense to him and something he could accomplish.
After talking to his counselor about how his drinking was ruining his pocketbook, health, work, and his relationship with his family, Gary grasped the fact that he was burning the candle at both ends with his hectic work hours and his irresponsible drinking. Once he grasped the fact that he was digging himself into a rut, with the assistance of his psychiatrist, and after three months in rehabilitation, he was at long last able to quit drinking and stop working overtime.
Due to His Alcohol Counseling Gary Felt Better and More Healthy
The result was that Gary saw life another way now that he was in alcohol recovery. To be more specific, due to his alcohol rehabilitation he not only was more patient when interacting with his wife and his children, but he actually had more money now even though he was working far fewer hours each week, he had more quality time to spend with his family, and he felt better and more healthy. Strangely enough, now that he quit drinking, Gary and his wife were not only beginning to save some money for a different house but he also felt more self esteem than anytime since he and his wife were married.












































